My very good friend wrote and i like to share...
"Over time, i have realized that LIFE is not just about "ME" but "US"; not
all about "MYSELF" but "OURSELVES". Our success is not complete when
everyone around us is not successful....there is no success without
"YOU".
Choose not to live this life of a selfish being and also realize that you could give a hand to all, Living a trade mark, wiping
tears and replace with a smile, living each day with the consciousness
that i meant something to someone and not just my family members and
friends.
To me, success isn't about FAME! But its "having all
you need and still know that they don't totally belong to you" but you
have them so as to be a blessing to others who don't have as much as you
do. "God blesses us so we can bless others". Don't be known as a
celebrity but a "HERO" people looks up-to as an example. Make a
decision to make yourself available for those who need you, if not in
person then in words, if not in gifts then in hugs, if not in Smile then
in Pecks.
Am always excited when friends call me up for some
words of encouragement or advise. I spoke to a good friend on her
birthday and the first thing she said was "Oyin please Pray for me"... and I'm
glad i did. Truth is, i need these things myself but in what i tell
others i always find a word for myself too. So in helping others i help
myself and am glad to do such at all times but one of the things that
gladdens my heart more is knowing that am not just restricted to friends
around me but to everyone i make contact with, i ensure i leave them
with just a word.
What mark are you leaving behind? What would you be known for? What do you call success? Is your life all for yourself?
Funny enough, so many of us know this but we are just not ready to accept.
I end with this story:
My
historical Role Model, my mummy, Margaret Olajumoke Adebo (MOA) inspired
me as she lived her life for all around her and even little children and
how till date a little girl at age 5 refers to me as "Mummy Church".
Story has it that my mum would not go to church without something for
the children (cabin, gala, drinks) so every Sunday,
this girl is always expecting something from "mummy church". So when
she sees me and calls me by the name i just ensure i give her something
as her "Mummy Church" would do, so i don't go to that area without a gift
for the girl.
YES! Her demise changed all about me and my earlier
stated dreams, the me you see now was not the me of last year and am
glad to be who i am with no regrets. She's left her foot prints and am
gladly walking in them, she left this world with a mark to know she was
here!!
What are you leaving behind? Your Cars, your houses, your
certificates? All these are also necessary but only on these planet
earth!
Make a decision to see others just as you see
yourself, this is called LOVE. The bible says love is the greatest of all
Jam2:8,1pet1:22,John 13:34,Rom 13:8-10".
My name is Adebo
Oyinkansade Ademidun.
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I hope you had a nice time reading through this awe-inspiring article. Please keep and practice what you have gained from this piece of art. I love you.
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