Introduction:
Don’t ever mistake marriage for courtship. Psychologically, Marriage is an institute we can never come out from. It is a bond between lovers. Marriage is the super-psychological blending/ welding of hearts that feels the sense of compatibility and ready to stand through the test and challenges of living together as one. It travels beyond the just “I do” we say in churches, courts and other places of wedding observances. It’s completely a natural phenomenon!
When enrolled into this never-graduating institution, you answer the register of two-in-one because together, you share one heart. It means that decisions are agreed before they are taken.
It goes beyond the ordinary life we live as singles because it introduces to us, a kind attitude we never thought of having and a kind life-style we never considered living. Marriage should be a carefully enrolled institution because it never has a retirement plan or any graduation ceremony to host. To be married means to share life’s hassle.
FINDING THE RIGHT PARTNER
Many a time, I hear people complain bitterly about been married to the wrong partner. There is one fact we must embrace here: there is never a wrong partner! If you say someone’s a wrong partner to you, obviously, you are a wrong partner to someone.
Everyone is made right in the image of the creator of life. As individuals, we are born with desires as well a life-style; so we know what we want and the time we do want them. The moment you fail to spot this very important factor; (knowing what you want and the time you want them), you loose that power that made you who you are. What we do is: make the mistake of choosing to live with people whom we can’t blend or bend to fit our desires and life-style.
Just like spelling your name on a paper, you can find that matching partner to spend the rest of your life with. Did I just hear you say Easy to write but hard to do? Come off that! Hard to write but very easy to do! Relax your tension; I will guide you through this imperative voyage. Just fasten your seatbelt!
There is a love that cannot be bought. There is a dream that cannot be forgotten. There is a story that cannot be left unsaid. There is a book that cannot be left unread. There is a picture that cannot escape the memory of the past. There is a song that cannot be left unsung, a stone that cannot be left unturned and an opportunity that cannot be forgone.
Finding the ideal partner to your life is as simple as saying the ABC. Yes! As simple as recognizing where your mouth is when you close your eyes. Finding a true partner is a journey we all must embark on. It is a quest we all are hungry for. A question we all want answers for. And a movie we all wish to watch. There are desires in you that cannot be compared with mare sight, and those desires can never be meaningful until they are converted to what people can see, benefit from and appreciate.
By now, we should be reading on a page. Finding the right partner is hard but very easy! To this effect, there are easy steps you really need to trace to make. The steps therefore:
1. Be acquainted with your worth
2. controlling your feelings
3. Recognize what you feel
4. tell yourself the truth
5. attitude test
6. work out phase
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