BE ACQUAINTED WITH YOUR WORTH
As a self-governing individual with full control over emotions, likes and wants, you should have the aptitude to recognizing your worth because, your worth determines your want. Your want determines your feelings. Your feeling determines what you say to yourself. What you say to yourself, determines what you’re set out for. And what you set out for, determines your end result which should be your most considered factor.
You see? It begins with getting familiar in the company of what you are worth.
As a banker, you know how much “accountancy” means to you, and how much “trust” is deposited in you. With this, you need no one to tell you that a fellow whose concern is pleasure should be over a million miles away from you else, you risk your job for the sake of satisfying that fellow, all because you want to be the best husband/ wife in the surface of the earth. It doesn’t work like that!
When you know your worth, you won’t just pick up any lady you see on the street. When you know your worth, you will not hanker after every lady that says “hi” to you. Know your worth! Carry yourself in your mind and feel the weight you have. Are you weighty enough to sink into your worth? Or are you such that can be tossed around by mare situations?
For in due course, your persuasions will give birth to a never-rejected result. It is left for you now, to name what that end-result should be.
CONTROLLING YOUR FEELINGS
You might be wondering to yourself; where did this dude emanate from, to discuss how I should control the way I feel. But you see? It doesn’t matter where I come from, what matters is what you scratch off me. Get it! This is what I’m created for: to empower, to change, to add value to, to amend, and to make new.
Feelings are emotional states. They don’t just happen, they are caused. So you can control them, you can change them! Yes you can!! When you find yourself falling in love with every dick-and-tom, just take a pause! Ask yourself this question: why am I falling in love with every lady/ why am I falling in love with every guy? Give the answer back to yourself. You know it! Perhaps, a little search in your mind and conscience will help. Is it the money you receive from those guys or the beauty you see in those ladies? How much money do you think you can collect that can buy you love? How many beautiful ladies do you think you can fall in love with at a time?
My wife isn’t beautiful! Don’t you know that before proposing to her? Oh no, she’s becoming too old to hangout with; whose fault is it when you do not allow her dress like the young woman you intend to give a ride to the nearby hotel? You forbid her from putting on trousers yet you end your day in-between trouser-wearing ladies you know nothing about.
It’s not worth it! You are in charge of the way you feel. It’s a must for you to rule over your thoughts. Once you fail at it, you get tossed by even calm-windy-situations and unnecessary side-attractions. If feelings are caused, find out what those causes are. This way, you can eliminate the negative ones; bundle them up and dumped in the pit of forgetfulness and give a warm embrace to the positives.
As a married man who sneaks out of his matrimonial home for an “away match”, have you considered how exposed, naked, and empty you have become to the many homeless diseases out there? You go by yourself and trade in those diseases to your home and later accusing the once-innocent devil to be responsible for your inability to control your own feelings? You think being a sugar mummy are ideal? Why did you say yes to the gentle man’s proposal when you know you still want more fun? Do you know how many ladies your sugar son is investing your money on? Have you considered the number of infections he is accommodating?
Feelings aren’t meant to destroy us, they are meant to guide us. If your feelings are wrong, they can destroy you, they can make you behave in a manner capable for giving birth to a total regret. Do you enjoy it when friends snigger at you? That’s what it brings: shame and disgrace to your personality and those looking up to you!
Feel the right feelings to keep your mind healthy. Stop thinking like the old-usual way! Become new in your thoughts and feelings. For you to be connected with the perfect match to spend the rest of your life with, you must have the right feelings.
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